Ramadan

Oh! My dear dippressed people.
Oh! My dear sisters & brother.
The one's who are struggling their lives.
The one's who are emotionally ill at ease.
The one's whose life is filled with pins and needles.
Recline & settle back.
Unbend & take a break.
Make merry and jump for joy.
As everything is going to b well-made.
As the month of blessings, favour, kindness & praise reached us.
All these months we've spent our days and lives in ignorance.
Running towards the worldly things.
Let's stop here,
This is the month of blessings, and we need to start changing ourselves.
Ramadan is a great opportunity to catch and make it useful in every way possible.
Ramadan is the best month of the year.
One should thank Allah ﷻ for this blessing and allowing us to be alive to witness this month and compete in doing good deeds.

Repent, repent to God.
As it is upon all sinners and slackers in religion to repent to Allah ﷻ.
Allah ﷻ forgives all, all sins, indeed, it is he who is the forgiving, the Merciful.

So the people of persistant sinning should never despair of Allah ﷻ mercy, rather repent to him, especially in this month of Ramadan, repent to Allah truly.
A lasting repentance, not just for Ramadan rather a repentance until death.
This is how a Muslim should be, and indeed this month is a month which directs the Muslims to good.

And let's stop making fun of people too.
There are some Muslims who make fun of their own brothers and sisters in Ramadan.
I witnessed it. 😐
Like "play boy to pray boy" "to wear hijab only in Ramadan is hypocritical."
"in the day fasting and night party.

Stop such statements!
The month of Ramadan is very special time. In this month people who never pray start praying and taste the love of Islam.
So help those brothers and sisters, motivate them to go on.
Actually, we should be happy to see them coming back to the right path, to learn how to pray, to recite and learn more about Allah ﷻ.
Never speak in a indecent way, may be you kill the last piece of hope in their heart to start praying and to become a better Muslim.

An important thing, let's forgive too.
While we are asking forgiveness for ourselves it is also very important to forgive people who have done wrong to you.
Just forgive and pray for them.
Let's clear our relationships, family disputes, friendship issues too and start loving everyone.
When our heart and mind is pure our intentions get pure too.

Let's not just focus on food and clothing,lets not waste our time walking on streets in search of super trending dress to wear on eid.
Rather spend time in improving skills.
And make an intention to stay same after Ramadan too.

Let's pure our hearts from pride and arrogance also this Ramadan.

"the heart has been singled out for this, because it is the leader of the body and through the purification of the leader, the subjects become purified."

So, if you wish to cure your heart, then it is upon you to be truthful with regards to seeking refuge with Allahﷻ.

Hence, let's make this Ramadan useful, filled with zikr,blessings and happiness.

May Allah ﷻ accept our fasts and supplications and grant us health.
May he enshrine us with happiness and cheerfulness with warmth and peace.

Ramadan mubarak 💖

-Amatulmuqeeth ❤️
 

I LOVE YOU💗

"Casting my mind back to past i thought of days
When i was'nt happy with usual things you did for me..
Looking at my friends enjoying eachothers company, parties,hangouts, living a social life... i always got angry on you as you never allowed me to do things which every friend of mine enjoyed doing.
I was sad when you never allowed me to stay alone at grandmaa's home, or with my cousins at nights..
I felt like i was'nt free..
I felt too confused when you always asked me to stay indoors during magrib..
I felt bad when you decided about my marriage so early..
I felt bad when i wasnt around you after my marraige..
I felt bad as i could'nt see you everyday..
I felt bad as i missed every stuff u did earlier..
I felt bad as i could'nt understand your concern for me behind everything you did..
I felt bad as i couldnt understand that you love me..
I felt bad for feeling bad about you.
But i always loved you.

Though you always tend to project your tough emotionless exterior, I know it is to keep me disciplined. I have reached that age now where I can see your motives clearly behind everything you ever asked me to do. It is only because of you that I can now judge what is good or bad for me.

I know you love me..
I know you love me when you always stop me from doing something wrong.
I know you were concerned towards me in everystage of my life.

I felt too happy and too embarrassing both at same time when i was carrying manha in my womb and was writing my exams and when you were dropping me to exam hall driving me in car. Driving so slow that the bicycle used to leave our car behind😂
Stoping car right infront of the college steps where every student and lecturers and also attenders could see me coming out of car with a baby bump.. i felt so shy but i know you did this for me as you love me..
Dear dad.
I have no doubt that God took a piece of you to make me for the person I am—a smaller, girlier version of my dad.Your unending belief in my boundless potential empowers me every single day. I can’t thank my stars enough for having you in my life. You are and will always be the best gift I got from life.

I can look into your heart,
I can read your unspelled words,
I can see tears in your dry shining bright eyes,
I can feel that you miss your children when we are not around,
I can see your hardwork,Working day and night without sharing your pain,
I can understand you do this for us.
I understand you.
I really do.

Although you were never as vocal as Mommy and never escorted me around from activity to activity, your influence, your quiet yet strong presence was always there. I have now truly realized the true depth and breadth of your presence throughout my life. In you, I see the effortless dedication to care and love.
I hope you know dad, how blessed I feel to have you in my life! I’m super proud to be your daughter. No words written on paper can accurately express the love I feel for you. Whenever you lifted me in your strong wide arms and enveloped me in the warmest and tightest hug possible, I knew you were the man I could always take refuge in.

Every time you dropped me off at school and let go of my tightly held hand, I would anticipate for the school to get over so I could hold that hand again.
Your daughter will always look at the time spent with you vastly differently than you do. She will watch every move you make. She might not understand why you are angry sometimes or happy or affectionate, but you will be the most important man in her life—forever.

Love you more than anything!
Tears rolling down as am writing this.

I LOVE YOU.

Your loving daughter
AMATULMUQEETH."

Knock,knock.. what have you done??

Clock...
A cuckoo clock,
A digital clock,
An alarm clock....
A tick tock..
Is all I hear coming out of my clock.
Tick tock, tick tock
Sharper than a bell, and louder than a knock.
Knock.. tick tock..
Heard it somewhere?? I hear it everywhere.

Every knock of the clock reminds me of my days, past and the days left.
I stuck up thinking what have i done in my past 20 years.

Changing or taking risks?? Naaaah!!!
Being trapped & neglecting peace,
I found out I did nothing.
Absolutely nothing.
Chilling out  with friends,
Neglecting my class lectures,
Wasting my time chit chatting,
Liking commenting and sharing on socialmedia with my friends.
   

A few who left me,
A few who never speak to me,
A few who now plot against me,
A few who now never support me,
And I remained here alone with a few.

Every knock of my clock reminds me of those days.
Regret for doing nothing.

This is what i've done in my past 20 years.  What have you done?
And what am I doing now? And what are you doing?? Yeah! You.

Here comes the time when the world gets quiet and only thing left is my own heart. So i'd better learn the sound of it. Or i'll never get what its saying.
It says... common head up you have no time.

How did it get so late so soon?

Time is the most precious things of our lives.
To realise the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.
To realise the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave a birth to a premature baby.
To realise the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.
To realise the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just avoided an accident.
                              "A minute now is better than a minute later."
                              Treasure every moment! Yesterday is now a history.
                                Tomorrow is mystery.
                               Today is a gift. That's why its called a present.

The proper function of a man is to live not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I decided did you?
I shall use my time. Will you?
For what??
If you set out to be liked, you would be prepared to compromise on anything at anytime and you would acheive nothing.

When you get in a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer,never give up then,
For that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.

Our success in anything is connected with action.
Lets keep moving towards the goal.
We'll make mistakes but lets don't quit.
We may even have to hang on after  others have let go.

The only people who fall are those that do not try.
It takes persistence to reach a goal.
And yes never waste your time with explanations, people only hear what they hear.
Where ever you are be there totally.

 Thanks for wasting your time with me. Sometimes the time you enjoy wasting is not wasted time if you learn something.
I believe you learned something did you?
Let me know.
Share your opinions.
Love
Amatul muqeeth💟

Unnoted change❤

Change.

A verb which means an act or process through which something becomes different.

A living organism, from a single minute cell to a human body emprices change in everystage of growth.
This can be named as a physical change.

While there is another change which develops without giving us an allusion.

An emotional,mental & behavioural change, sometimes within ourselves and also in the habitat and neck of the woods.

Just when we think we have learned the way to live,life changes, and colours, like features follow the change of emotions.

Let me share you my exclusive episode with change.
There is a saying "old ways wont open new doors"

I dont know if love changes or people change, but i know circumstances surely change.

When i was 16 , I was a kind of a girl who never reconciliates with her sleep.
When my clock stucks 10 i used to hit my head into my pillow, and within few seconds i end up in a world of fairytale dreams.

Me and my pillow was just my motive untill then.

Later when I got married and after my post pregnancy to untill today I have a blank about my peacefull slumber.

Like everymother I experienced "change."

And then I decided going back my past, I am not certain where life will take me what turns&twists will happen nobody knows where they'll end up.
As life changes directions, I'll flow withit.
Now I am happy and flying high.

Similarly I and every human face different situations in our lives where we change ourselves and discern it after completely getting involved into it.

At first we get stressed up & weardown and get irritated towards it and end up concluding something which is not acceptable.

But thats the time when we need to have deligence.
Taking help from ourbeloved ones.
Surrounding ourselves and sometimes paying attention to people who guide us to good comes to halt with a happy get-up-and-go life.
I am much obliged  that Allah has blessed me with super beautiful family, Inlaws, friends, who at times when i get frenzied with pleasures of this world or when i start behaving anomalous lead me to courteousness in everyway possible.

All we need to do is to  listen to our heart and recognise those people and never let them shove off.

And then we feel happy with our change, happy in a way that the impact of that change can be seen in our eyes.
Sometimes we change or sometimes we stay cloned but the bout and the breeze changes.

A lovely qoute by jeff bezos.
What we need to do is always lean into the future, when the world changes arround you and when it changes against you, what used to be a tail wind is now a head wind_ you have to lean into that and figure out what to do because complaining is not a strategy.

Thanks for reading.

AMATUL MUQEETH❤

Toungue-tied voice.

Voice.

An unheard voice,
Voice of a girl,
Voice of a women,
Voice of a mother,
Voice of a daughter,
Voice of a daughter-in-law,
Voice of a wife.

God gifted us a boneless toungue and a voice,Alhumdullilah.

But this society muted our sound and made us dumb.
We girls the female species of  human beings in everystage of our lives were taught to have certain limits on our voice.
We were thought to lower our voice from a very early stage.
As daughters we were taught not to question, not to raise our voice for asking our rights towards everysingle right we deserve.

As a wife we were asked to lower our voice infront of our husband and his families even if they are'nt on the righteous path.

We were thought to adjust, compramise, and let it go.. like to let go everything.

Let go of freedom,
Let go of  happiness.

There should be an equality between men and women.
All humanbeings men and women are free to develop their personal abilities and make choice without limitations set by steriotypes,rigid gender roles, and prejudices.

Remember girls are a blessing to this humanity not a burden.
Learn to appreciate women in your life.

I once heard 2 parents speaking about their children.
One of the fathers was demonstrating  his agony to other saying he has no opportunity to feel proud of his children as he has no son to make him feel so.
I could'nt answer him at that moment.

But here i say
"You dont actually need a son to make you proud,
A daughter can also make u feel proud even if she doesnt do any appreciable thing in her life,
She will make you proud if u emerge her into a blossming flower
And
NEVER MUTE HER voice.

We are living in 21st century today but its very humiliating to know that even today we have people who descriminate gender.

A girls has a right to enter this world.
A girl has a right to be raised,exalt, and enhance,
A girl has a right to study,learn and explore,
A girl has a right to choose her carrer,
A girl has a right to choose her partner,
A girl also has a right to give birth to an other girl into this world.

Lets have high opinion towards girls,
Lets love them with our hearts,
Lets show consideration and show courtesy to them,
Lets help them scrutinize their lives,
Lets allow them to speak up their fondness,
 To raise their voice upto a greater level that everymen can hear her voice,
A voice so louder,
A voice from her thorax,
A voice from her heart and viens,
A voice from her soul,
A voice of her,
A voice of a girl,
A VOICE.
❤❤

-AMATUL MUQEETH.

7 principles to live by

A reasonable life can be acheived by anyone an ok life an ok job ok realtionship.. anyone can have these.
If you want a great life u must commit to leading a great life. To doing things the majority do not do.
Commit to think like the minority not like the majority.

Here are 7 principles to livr by for an abundant happy succesful life.

Number 1:

The frst principle to live by is that one day you will be gone may be in 50 years it may be in 50 weeks it may be next week or even today. I dont know you dont know nobody knows. And rather than live in fear of this we should embrace the fact this life is short,short and unpredictable. Knowing this we must live fully today. Its not a recipe for recklessness rather a recipe to give your all today. To give your very best today. In everything u do to give your greatest energy to this day,to your family to everyone you encounter today. Its a reminder for you to leave your best self in each moment. What if they couldnt speak to you tomorrow? What if you were gone tomorrow?what would they speak of you?  What can you do that will leave a lasting positive memory in the life of everyone who come on contact with. Its about being light hearted. Knowing that in the end. None of this stuff matters the only thing that ever matters is how you made others feel.
Number 2:
There is nothing you cannot do. Do or have.
If there has been someone even 1 person on this planet that has done it before that means you can too..
It doesn't mean that will be easy. But it does mean it is possible. And as long as it is possible you can work towards it. You can make a plan learn what need to be done for you to live your craziet most abundunt life. A life most would consider impossible. But you know impossible broken down states I am posibble.
Impossible brokendown is simply the process of making a plan and being willing to work for that plan.

Number 3:

Nothing is worth it if it doesnt make you happy or make you better. Dont make time for it. Now before any one of you jump on this let me clarify nothing is worth it if it doesnt make you happy means if it doesnt make you happy now, while you are doing it. Or it isnt going to make u happy as a result of doing it.
Just about everything worth fighting for is going to require a real fight. To win a great prize you will have to suffer sacrifice for almost anything worthwhile in life but you should ask yourself a question about everything you do in your life does this make you happy? If the answer is no ask urself will this sacrifice i am making lead to more happiness in long term.
Number 4:

Be yourself always.. no expectations its such a tragedy to see so many people on this planet living lives they dont want to live just because they listened to other people who did the same.
The only way you can live happy in this life the only way you can be successfill is if you be you!!
Because perhaps its the most important thing you could ever apply to your life.

You will never be truly happy in life if you are constantly doing things to please others to compete with others or to be like another. You are unique and that is your greatest gift when you follow your ownpath regardless that fits in with others.Everything you need is with in yourself its already within you in this world we see endless examples of people who seemingly have it all.
Materially speaking but they are empty inside. Things will never complete you
Other people will never complete u
There is a saying... "needing nothing attracts everything"... when you come from a place of needing nothing of seeking nothing outside yourself to make you happy. You open up space for more amazing people to enter your life and if things dont come thats fine. You dont need them real happiness is never found outside of us its not found in possesions or wealth.happiness is always and only found within us it is a state of mind.
Number 5:
Sorrounding ourselfs with good people thers no room for toxic people but there is never ending space for positive energy and positive people. Surrounding yourself with energy killers is one of the worst thing you can do if you want to live a happy fulfilled life and succesful life. unfortunately not everyone inculding your family and friends will share the same positive energy you have.
Some will take a while some might never get there let them run their own race while you focus on living your own happiness.
Those who are truly aligned with you will never hold you back from living the life you want to.
Dont ever dim your light to fit in with others.
Shine bright those who see ur spark will shine with you.
Remember you cant live a greatlife a happy life if you surround yourself with toxic people.
Number 6:
Focus on what you want
Whatever you focus on you will find if you search for negetivity in this world you will find plenty of it. If you search for hate anger voilence and sadness you will find it. But the same is true on the flip side if your only intention is to search for the good you will find only the good. Whatever meaning you give your life becomes your life. It can be a failure or a lesson or heartbreak or character buliding .
Number 7:
Life is against you or making you stronger because there is no such thing in reality we choose our own reality by the meaning we give each moment in our lives. make it your intention to look for the good in ur life.to notice the good in others to be gartefull for what u do have